It really is not uncommon to want to know how to spice up your relationship with your partner. In fact, a study on Relationships in America finds that “one in five married people in America (20%) have not had sex in the last month, 12% in the last three months and 6% have not had sex in more than a year.” If you do the math, then you can easily see that there are lots of sexually frustrated people!

As you can see, many people — both men and women — search for ways to add more pizazz into their sex lives. There are even whole magazines, television shows, and radio programs that revolve around this question. So, here is a fantastic guide on spicing up your relationship in just a couple of quick and easy steps!

How to Spice Up Your Relationship: 4 Steps to Satisfying Her

• Go Long, Go Deep. A recent Kings College studied the penis sizes of over 15,000 men from Asia, Europe, and North America. In the study, it was revealed the average erect length was 5.16″ with an average circumference of 4.59″. For some men, these stats may be of concern as they worry about adding a few extra inches. However, for those worried about increasing their size, a penis extension is a quick & easy way to do so. An increase in tool size can supply a boost in confidence for you and lead to multiple you-know-whats for her! 😉
• Change the Pace. After going to the same places or sneaking in a quickie on long days, a change of pace or place can be the spark that lights the fire. Surprises such as small gifts of lingerie, flirty texts sent during long meetings, or an elaborately planned getaway can add just the right reminder of how important your relationship is.
• Stop the Rush. With our everyday lives in a constant rush, it is easy to forget the art of connecting in real-time. Face-to-face talks lead to open communication and established trust. Slowing down to center your partner in the light of your attention shows that they are your priority and your relationship is important.
• Try a New Path. If you always have sex in the same place, at the same time, or in the same way, then it is time to change. The anticipation of trying out new moves can cause an established relationship to catch fire. While it promotes confidence to know that your path will succeed, something new & unique is worth the risk. Role playing & attraction scenarios are also great for turning an unexpected situation into a white hot burn for you both.

What Else Can I Do?

Another common killer of sexual desire is the rut of expecting the same sexual experience over and over again. After all, you don’t want to eat the same meal every day for the rest of your life do you? Not many people do. “Spicing up” your relationship is exactly that! Mix up your daily lifestyles and do something different than the norm.

The simple answer for how to spice up your relationship is just to do what excites you and your partner! Doing things that remind you both of the early days of your relationship can quickly bring that fire back. You could even share with her that you’d like to court her again and watch her eyes ignite with desire! ?